Monday, 25 July 2016
Tuesday, 19 July 2016
Understanding and Expressing True Love
Understanding the fundamental mindsets of both the male
and female perception of things will allow the very obvious distinctions to
become evident. This is clearly depicted in the thought process that clearly
defines the woman’s need for love while the man’s needs are primarily different
as shown in the prioritized need for respect instead of the lesser valued
element of love.
For most people having a relationship that is both
respectful of each other’s feelings and the ability to freely express affection
would be their prime concern and goal.
Understanding that most people would have to make a
conscious effort to create the ideal partnership, ensures all parties involved
would try their best to ensure the partnership is built on the most ideal and
best elements that would contribute to a strength and longevity of the
relationship.
Finding love would require some initial physical and
mental contributions on the part of each individual as there would have to be
various different elements that would have to seem to be working together in
order to ensure the end results would be appealing to the party being wooed.
Understanding that there are no quick fixes and that all
parties seeking true love should explore all avenues present would be something
worth considering as this will definitely help to lessen the disappointing
possibilities as they arise.
Most experts advocate understanding and finding one’s
true self before attempting to find the comfort love from an outside force.
Learning to be at peace and be filled with happiness without the need for
outside accreditation would be a good place to start.
Being comfortable with one’s self and being able to spend
time alone and enjoying one’s own company are all things that should be
acceptable to the individual before embarking on the quest to include others
into the equation.
In order to find true love, the individual should first
be able to love themselves for what and whom they are, as this will be very
clearly depicted in the way they treat themselves and how they go about their
daily life.
Monday, 18 July 2016
NLP Mastery Program
NLP technique is the result of 40 years of study on the
experiences of people who have made a difference. The study focused on people
who were exceptional performers, who did things others would not think of doing
and because of it not only succeeded in realizing their dreams but also had a
great impact on others.
NLP teaches you general principles by which you can
achieve the things you want in life. These principles when applied consistently
and properly result in a change in perspectives. You become more confident and
less bothered by emotions; you are able to overcome fears; your thoughts are
more directed and focused because you would have shed your negative beliefs and
repetitive thoughts; and you become an excellent communicator.
Basically, NLP is really just about managing and training
your mind, which really is quite an important skill to have in life, especially
when it comes to happiness and success in life.
Neuro-linguistic programming or NLP is one of the most
powerful applied psychology system anyone with keen interest in the
communication and persuasion fields can do to improve his convincing powers.
Knowing exactly how people communicate will enable you to see the real matrix
of communication, whether in person, via phone or any other electronic means
such as email, texting and online chatting.
Pacing
and Leading
Pacing
means that you are demonstrating that you have an appreciation of the other
person’s reality, which you can do by pointing out things that are undeniable
in his current situation.
Leading means grabbing another by the hand and taking him
to wherever you want him to go.
The
general pattern is as follows:
Pace,
Pace, Pace, and Lead. Which later becomes Pace, Pace, Lead, Lead. Eventually it
becomes Pace, Lead, Lead, Lead.
Let
us say you are a guy who wants to get acquainted with that beautiful girl you
see in the mall, how do we apply this principle?
Hi, I know it’s completely random(P), and you probably
might think it’s weird(P), as we don’t know each other and all(P), may I please
know your name(L)?
The
more you get in rapport, the less pacing statements you have to make and you
can get away with more leading.
An
example would be:
Oh so you are just waiting for a friend (P)? Great! Let’s
go sit down over there (L), tell me more about yourself (L), but text your
friend so she knows where you’re at (L).
That is just an example and the same pattern can be
applied whether for business applications, to resolve family conflicts, getting
a better deal on a car etc.
Sunday, 10 July 2016
Ted Bundy Handwriting Analysis
Theodore Robert "Ted" Bundy was an American serial killer, kidnapper, rapist and necrophile who assaulted and murdered numerous young women and girls during the 1970s and possibly earlier. Shortly before his execution, after more than a decade of denials, he confessed to 30 homicides committed in seven states between 1974 and 1978. The true victim count remains unknown, and could be much higher. Bundy was regarded as handsome and charismatic by his young female victims, traits he exploited to win their trust. He typically approached them in public places, feigning injury or disability, or impersonating an authority figure, before overpowering and assaulting them at more secluded locations.
Read more in my book Violent Behaviour in Handwriting
Friday, 8 July 2016
How to become a Microexpression Master
Once you
meet a person for the first time, you can easily tell whether you like him or
not. There may be something in him or in his physical presence that
distinguishes the kind of person he is. Many people say it is about intuition,
instinct, or “gut feeling” but researchers discovered that there is something
beyond it called micro expressions.
Micro Expressions Defined
Microexpression
is defined as the brief and involuntary expression of the face shown by humans
depending on the emotions experienced. It occurs in various high stakes
solutions wherein people have something to gain or lose. They last only a
fraction of a second.
Micro
expressions also occur when a particular person tries to conceal all the signs
of how he feels or when he is not aware of how he feels. These reactions are
more difficult to hide, unlike the usual facial expressions. They are expressed
in 7 universal emotions which are anger, happiness, contempt, surprise,
disgust, sadness, and fear. Seven emotions have universal signals: anger, fear,
sadness, disgust, contempt, surprise and happiness.
The face is
the best indicator of a person’s emotions. There has been groundbreaking
research done on decoding the human face. Also facial expressions are
universal. People all over the world make the same face for same emotions. Even
those blind since birth, also make the same expressions even though they have
never seen other people’s faces.
A person’s
face is the sign vehicle or medium which sends a message. When people read a
facial expression, they look at separate data and draw conclusions from it.
Some of this data are the muscle tone and basic structure. The wrinkles,
scarring or weathering of skin may also indicate that changes definitely took
place.
With the
help of increasing reliability and decreasing whole-body sensing technology
cost, there is also an increase in understanding and increase about learning
the body expressions as the dominant channel for effective communication. There
are issues about the universal aspect affecting the expression, recognition and
perception models or the human factors affected like culture.
On the other
hand, the artificial adornments like makeup, piercings, tattoos, or eyeglasses
can make a personal judgment according to what a person added by his choice.
But what provides more information are scowls, smiles, and frowns. These are
the changes revealing obvious information regarding somebody else’s immediate
intentions or mood. The expression represents the intended message of a person
regarding what he wants to convey.
The idea is to distinguish its significance in dealing with the study of body language. Most
importantly, it will help you in
identifying deception.
Thursday, 7 July 2016
Make your voice sound better through breathing exercises
Every young girl or boy dreams of what they would like to do
when they’re all grown up and some want to be a renowned singer. Whether you
prefer pop, jazz, rock or opera, the basic techniques that every singer must
know are always the same. Breathing correctly helps a lot to make your voice
sound better.
Breathing exercises
To tackle the first exercise, follow these steps:
Breathe in deeply and allow your stomach to expand outwards
as far as you can. Hold the breath for a few seconds. Exhale while pulling your
stomach back in. Never overexert yourself by pulling in your stomach too much
or trying to expand it too far during this exercise – straining will do you a
lot more harm than good.
Your next step will be to work on opening your throat.
To work on your throat:
Open your mouth wide, as though you were yawning. Once your
mouth is open far enough, your throat will follow suit. Begin practicing notes
from this position – it will take some getting used to, but once you master it
you’ll find it will quickly become second nature.
You will need to practice the next exercise on a daily basis for
several months in order to change the way you breathe but, eventually, it will
become second nature to you.
Lie down on your back on a comfortable mat, a sofa or a bed.
If you like, you can do this exercise just before you go to sleep at night,
taking a few moments to focus on your breathing and creating a routine for
yourself in the process. Place a book or similar heavy object on your stomach.
Relax completely and begin to breathe. Actively concentrate on inhaling so that
your stomach rises, rather than your chest. You have conscious control over
these muscles and can choose to use them at will. Watch the book on your
stomach. Once it begins to move up and down with your inhalations and
exhalations, you are breathing correctly. Maintain this breathing for several
minutes – at least ten breaths, counting to four with each inhale and exhale.
A tried and tested technique for learning to control your
breath is to use a candle.
Hold the candle around eight inches from your face and adopt
your breathing posture, with your shoulders back and your chest open. Inhale
deeply, filling your lungs completely. Exhale slowly, directing your breath
towards the flame as you do. The aim is to keep the flame alight, so you will
need to exhale very slowly and steadily to cause the flame to bend without
actually going out. If the flame starts to flicker, reduce the amount of breath
you are exhaling. If it’s not moving at all, increase the level of your
exhalation. Keep breathing out until you have exhaled completely, counting the
seconds as you do. Repeat the exercise during each of your singing sessions,
aiming to slowly increase the amount of time that it takes to let go of your
breath every time.
Mastering these exercise will take a while, but don’t be
disheartened. Once you have mastered it, you can feel confident that you have
control over your voice and will be able to hold your notes during any
performance. This will really improve and make your voice sound better.
Sunday, 26 June 2016
The Importance of Backlinks in SEO
Why do we need traffic ?
Making money online starts with attracting traffic to your
site. Of course this does not happen overnight. You need to exert some effort
and spend time working on a strategy that gets more people to visit your site.
This is where most internet marketers get stuck and confused.
I never seen my website getting ranked on first page because
I wrote a good article? Unless I make some good amount of backlinks? The truth
is. When 99% People say “Content is the king” they don’t even have idea what
they are talking. Content is the king yes, but with a fair amount of
backlinks they make a full empire.
What does backlink do ?
OFF PAGE SEO –
There are many things involved in OFF PAGE SEO
but it mainly comes down to one thing and one thing only.. BUILDING RELEVANT
AND QUALITY BACKLINKS to your website. The main, most important reason for creating backlinks is
for improved Google ranking. But the idea behind that is more important than
the ranking itself. We want good ranking so we will get the traffic that a top
ranking on Google (and other search engines) will bring. An added benefit of
backlinks is what happens as a result of this process - the increase of the
Page Rank (PR) of your site. The effect of increased page rank is that it shows
increased trust in your site. A higher page rank of your site allow it to rank
for more keywords.Google ranks a site higher in search
results based on the quality of links pointing to your site or its pages. It is
very necessary to get as many links as possible with the right anchor text from
good quality sites to our site. High quality back-links = higher rankings!
Getting back links from high page rank sites is not so
difficult but it may require time and effort, and if done properly you will see
the benefit within short period. People know that the higher the page ranks of
a site, linking to your site, the more link juice you will receive. Find high
rank site and link to them.
When it comes to backlinks, the number of backlinks your site
has is not so matter but the quality and relevancy is the major factors Google
consider ranking site. There are many sites that has 30 to 45 backlinks that
rank more than sites with 1000 backlinks.
Saturday, 25 June 2016
Creating Backlinks for SEO
The importance of Link building
Link building is the heart of any search engine optimization
campaign. It is inarguably more important than on-site optimization, as
links are the primary determinants of how websites are ranked on Google or any
popular search engine. Of course, it is also critical for your website
content to be search engine optimized. Keep in mind, even if all your on-site
factors were 100% perfect, your website would never rank well for any valuable
key phrase without links.
What has changed in Link building ?
Acquiring high-quality links is harder than ever. In
the early days of search engine optimization, all it took to get ranked well
was to trade links with enough similar websites, and in almost no time you
would be ranked close to number one for your targeted key phrase.
Sometimes you didn’t even need to build links – just stuffing large quantities
of targeted keywords into your pages was enough. But times have changed.
Not only are there far more websites competing in every industry, but
search engine algorithms have become significantly more advanced and
sophisticated. Virtually every technique that worked in the early 2000s
will actually cause harm in today’s environment. For example, direct
reciprocal link exchanges, where a website links to you in return for you
linking to them, will no longer benefit your rankings. The value of
submitting to directories has also declined substantially. Essentially,
if a link is very easy to get, it’s almost worthless.
What is the solution?
That’s not to say “easy” links have no value, but they must
be acquired properly and be outnumbered by stronger links. A general
rule of link building is to have as diverse a link profile as possible.
This means gaining links from as many different domains as possible, as long as
those domains don’t host spam. Therefore, links from self-made
sources like website and article directories, blog comments, forum posts, and
Web 2.0 properties still have value, and are a healthy part of any link profile
when combined with higher quality sources. For some long-tail key phrases
with little competition, these simple methods alone can be effective for
achieving a high ranking, provided they are executed correctly. However,
for highly competitive terms, you will undoubtedly need a sizable amount of
much stronger links.
Here comes the need for links from reputed high page ranking
websites. Links from high PR websites have become very important. Google
appreciates and recognises these links because these websites have authority.
Hence backlinks from these websites are very important.
But can you get backlinks from these high PR websites ? Yes,
you can. Not only that, these links are safe and will help you rank your
website on google.
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